Hey guys and dolls, this week’s blog is going to be a little different. I have decided to provide our viewers with a little insight of my married life. I have chosen to touch on this subject as I feel not many people talk about their married life, and that’s okay but I think from time to time people need to be aware of the reality of marriage and the ups and downs that one can go through whilst being married.
So I am nearly embarking on being married for a year and I can honestly say it’s been a self-discovery of myself as well as my husband. I have quickly learned to not put all my expectations on my husband, and realise that it’s important to remain an individual as well as in partnership.
I truly believe you need to be self-fulfilled to really appreciate your significant other, and do not look to them to make your dreams come true as ultimately that’s entirely on you. Communication is a big factor in any relationship and my husband and I have quickly realised that we have to work on this each and every day for our relationship and needs to be identified and met.
Taking time to enjoy your own space is crucial for your attitude in a relationship and allows you to bring a better vibe to your significant other. My husband and I love every minute we spend with each other, but we also appreciate our time apart as it allows us to miss each other and appreciate what we have.
Finding time to reconnect is an instrumental part in every relationship. I have to admit this is the part we struggle with the most as we have a 17- month old baby who consumes all of our time. So we are constantly reminding ourselves that we need to take time out to be with each other. We try as much as possible to get some alone time but it’s not always possible but we realise that, and we are making a conscious effort to spend time with just the two of us.
Okay so that’s enough about me and my married life. If you want to know more, please get back to me and I’ll be more than happy to offer my advice and support.