Hi Guys, so for the first time ever we have a guest blogger. Usually it’s just myself and Asiabee who write blog posts for this site. Mia from www.highstylife.com has written this article on millennials and the dating world. She shares her perspectives, experiences and knowledge. Take it away Mia!
Today a new generation is setting the dating trends. Society has changed, the new technologies are making their mark and the rules of the game are entirely new. So, let us see how the millennials have changed dating as we know it.
Going on Dates
Traditional dates are becoming just an image we see on movies, where a man and a woman make dinner plans together and book a table at the finest restaurant in town. That’s not how the millennials roll, though. They prefer more casual hangouts during any time of the day and don’t require wearing special attire, bringing flowers and spending several hours of their time. They prefer to grab a coffee and simply hang out.
Communication is something that was always done in person. Sure, people had phones, but they used them mostly to arrange the actual dates. Now, communication became much more diversified, as it can be done via texting, social media or phoning. Since all of this social media for communication are accessible on the mobile phone, talking is much more instant. This also means that a lot of important things can be lost in translation since reading the letters is never the same as reading someone’s face.
Technology as the third person in the relationship
One of the biggest dating mistakes millennials make is allowing technology to interfere with their relationship. And this doesn’t mean only by communicating via their smartphones. It has been some sort of a dating norm for couples to post their photos online (Facebook, Instagram), basically to show others how happy they are. Also, partners tend to check up on each other by “stalking” their social media profiles to see who liked their photos or commented on their posts.
Relationships as the next stage
In spite of all the novelties brought about by new tech and social media, millennials are still starting most of their relationships with long-term friends, work acquaintances or by meeting a friend of a friend. Real connections are found where there is already some degree of loyalty or commitment.
Times may change but people don’t
Technology and the changed circumstances definitely presents new challenges millennials are learning to overcome along the way. But, people are people, and they still aspire to the same things as the generations before them – meaningful relationship and long-term commitment. Although they tend to tie the knot much later than their parents, more than 60% of millennials who have never married would like to do so one day, and 80% of them think that romance is very important.
Millennials are juggling a lot of new things on the dating market, and sure, they make some mistakes while learning, but that is the essential part of the process. The most important thing is that, despite all the different trends, what matters the most remains unchanged.
Mia Taylor is a fashion and beauty enthusiast from Sydney and writer for www.highstylife.com. She loves writing about her life experiences. Travelling and enjoying other cultures and their food with her husband is a big part of her life. She is always on a lookout for new trends in fashion and beauty, and considers herself an expert when it comes to lifestyle tips.
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